Failures: Deal Or No Deal? (Process - Analysis)

We all want to experience success but in every success there is failure, failures are hard to accept and move on. But you need to, to have and to live a better life so, if it's hard for you to deal with your failure, these are the steps that may help you. These are not based on the experts. These are based on my opinion.

     First thing to do is to know the situation, When yo know and you acknowledged it, It will help you to know the reasons that cause you to fail. Acknowledge the whole situation, the positive side and the negative side but always remember don't focus on the negative because it  will surely hurt you and will make you more disappointed.

    Second step is to know yourself, when you know the situation you need to know yourself too. Yes, you know your name,where you live, your likes and dislikes but you should also know your abilities, your strengths and weaknesses, what you can do or you can't do. When you know these things you will know your personal limitations. It will help you to accept that you are good at some but not in everything, you may succeed and you may fail.

     Third step, Look at the brighter side! Put in to your mind that everything is in God's control, When you know in your heart that everything happens for a reason you will have a positive outlook in life. Ignore the dark side that hurt us.

     Fourth step is to know the benefits of having failures in life, When you fail, of course you will avoid to do it when you encounter the same thing again . And failures will make you more stronger in life.

     Fifth step, Which is the important step is to accept it and just move on after all the steps maybe somehow you'll be ready to accept everything. It's the past you can't change it anymore, you can't do anything, all you have to do is to forget the past and proceed on the next step.

     Last step is to be prepared. Prepare yourself to everything that can happen in the future, for another failure to come in life atleast you already know how to deal with it.


      Truly, it's hard to accept your failures in life but for you to have a better life to live, know that in life there are failures but of course there are also successes.